Do Not Enter Marriage Without Your Vex Money
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It is called vex money, because if your date turns out to be a crazy psychopath, you can just vex and leave on your own terms instead of being stranded!
Vex money could be a couple thousands of Naira … just enough to catch a cab or in extreme cases to pay for a
Presidential suite hotel room.
Unfortunately as we get more comfortable with the guy and as our relationship grows, we forget to grow our vex money also. And when marriage hits we completely forget about it altogether … because we believe in the fairy tale ending of marriage.
But marriage is not always that way, sometimes (actually 50% of the time per statistics) things can go bad. The angelic man you once loved can suddenly reveal himself to be that crazy psychopathic monster you initially feared or things might just simply not work out. But then it might be too late, especially if you have not grown your vex money from your first date to the couple of hundred thousand or several millions you need to escape a failing marriage.
Now, vex money is not needed all the time, but it makes it easier to get yourself out of a tough situation, a tough relationship, a tough job. When you have sufficient vex money, you have the power to control your destiny, to path your own way so that you are not at the mercy of another person.
So girls out there and guys too, make sure you grow your vex money daily. Grow it in a saving account, investment account or via your side hustle … whatever you do, keep growing your vex money as your relationship grows. So that whenever a situation, person or place is vexing you, you can look into your bank account … just vex and bounce!
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