The Perfect Guy Is Too Perfect

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So one day, I and a female friend are discussing about a guy who really likes her…he is polite, well spoken, dresses nice, intelligent and more. She likes the guy also but is hesitant about a relationship with him…according to her, he is too PERFECT…he is so PERFECT she suspects that he must be GAY!!!

CONCLUSION: Some women have no idea what they really want in a guy…

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  1. lmao @ Noe-events' commentMr. Thomas, pls take Ms. Fashola's response to you very seriously….unless u're already married or hv no desire to be married, in which case u may carry on:)Ofili u're right…some women have no idea what they really want in a guy.

  2. Most guys are extremely nice when they are trying to get with a girl…she can come back and tell us how perfect he is in a few months…and if he was gay he would be displaying his "perfection" to a guy and not her.

  3. Give Barry a medal. A friend once told me "be a nice guy, but once or twice a month, be an a**hole." It works. Apparently flipping out ever so often keeps the women on their toes

  4. lol…@popcornWomen might deny it, but I've observed this is many alternate forms. Some women say they are not attracted to a guy that is overtly nice (key word is some), they feel that that is not manly. @Rekia and @Halima: what can I say? That was her thinking…

  5. Lol @ Barry T and Bari G.The female species is a very unique one but at the end of the day, no one really knows anything about what men/women really want anyway. I personally wouldn't have concluded that the guy was gay but I can say there is power in perception… We're all perceived differently whether we know it or not. Hence , the different comments on the presented issue.On a sidenote, what kind of female would think a "too perfect" guy ought to be gay?! Does that even make sense?! Just makes you wonder what she's used too.

  6. If he seems perfect—-RUN!!!! He's hiding something. No one is perfect. NO ONE!And I hate to agree with Barry, but it's nice to see a little badness in a dude. Hopefully not directed at you, but just to know that it's there. Remember women=gatherers. Men=Hunters. If dude doesn't have the meanness required to hunt, he's lacking in the man department.

  7. If dude doesn't have the meanness required to hunt, he's lacking in the man department.———–That or he has a black card and prefers to let concierges do his hunting for him 😛

  8. The woman that this note is based on is the type of woman that probably requires a man to tell her what she wants. Any guy that sits around trying to figure out what women want like Mel Gibson back in 2000 is going to remain alone while other dudes eat his lunch. This young lady sounds as indecisive as that experimental donkey in the Oct '08 issue of Esquire magazine that voted Halle Berry sexiest woman in the world; It was hungry and thirsty, and placed equidistant from a pail of water and a plate of food. Unable to make up it's mind, it died. :

  9. The woman that this note is based on is the type of woman that probably requires a man to tell her what she wants. Any guy that sits around trying to figure out what women want like Mel Gibson back in 2000 is going to remain alone while other dudes eat his lunch. This young lady sounds as indecisive as that experimental donkey in the Oct '08 issue of Esquire magazine that voted Halle Berry sexiest woman in the world; It was hungry and thirsty, and placed equidistant from a pail of water and a plate of food. Unable to make up it's mind, it died. :

  10. The woman that this note is based on is the type of woman that probably requires a man to tell her what she wants. Any guy that sits around trying to figure out what women want like Mel Gibson back in 2000 is going to remain alone while other dudes eat his lunch. This young lady sounds as indecisive as that experimental donkey in the Oct '08 issue of Esquire magazine that voted Halle Berry sexiest woman in the world; It was hungry and thirsty, and placed equidistant from a pail of water and a plate of food. Unable to make up it's mind, it died. :

  11. Lol the guys are definitely on top of it – not that I blame una. It's easy to yap about how some women don't know what they want, but let me just say that the confusion thing cuts both ways *i come in peace o* lol

  12. "but let me just say that the confusion thing cuts both ways"————Co-sign."There's a thin line between Thugs and Chicks // because we're not totally opposite" – Thirstin Howl III

  13. Dude – it is called instincts cus women know there is no such thing as a perfect guy. Next thing you know she is hacked in little pieces and scattered all over Texas and he is on to another swooning girl. Shio.

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  15. Gaminegirlie on said:

    If he was really ‘perfect’ then she woudnt have a problem, she either doesnt know what perfect means or the guy is not perfect.

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