Judd Apatow Speaks: Two Minutes of Rambling Wisdom

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Once in a while, you come across an article that says what you want to say but in a much nicer and effective way. And this article by Jude Apatow does just that! Because it comes at a time where I am struggling to please everyone with my writings…but the truth is that we just can’t. Some people will hate the satire, some will hate the “shit” use and some will even disagree with an entire article. But what matters is that we write not for the masses but for what we believe to be the truth! Thanks Judd!…

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apatow judd quoteWhen I was in high school there were 500 people in my graduating class. Out of those 500 people I had two best friends and five other real friends. So I had a true connection with seven people and did not have a true connection with 493 people. Now I create stories and hope that 500 out of 500 people will appreciate the work. That is impossible. I don’t love most things I see or listen to, why should they? The truth is I should be happy with seven people being touched or amused by my work. I think it is okay to accept the fact that most people won’t get you. We don’t need to like each other so much. We need to be kind and respect each other.

Don’t be a jerk. Try to love everyone. Give more than you take. And do it despite the fact that you only really like about seven out of 500 people.

Every day I live by only one rule, be a good guy. I am proud of the fact that for the most part I have tried to make the world a better place in small and large ways. I am even more proud of the fact that for the most part I have not ruined the world. I haven’t committed any acts of extreme violence. I don’t litter. I don’t hunt endangered species for sport. I support politicians who appear to want to make the lives of the less fortunate better and who are concerned about our environment. Most of them still make it worse a fair amount of the time, but they are giving it their best shot. I think that is all we can do–give it our best shot. Don’t be a jerk. Try to love everyone. Give more than you take. And do it despite the fact that you only really like about seven out of 500 people. Being cool to the other 493 people is a great thing to do because you want those same 493 people to not give you a hard time when you run into them while ordering your burrito at Chipotle or on an airplane or during an international conflict or just a potential road rage incident. Life will be better for all of us if we want all 500 to be happy.

Written By Judd Apatow

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11 comments on “Judd Apatow Speaks: Two Minutes of Rambling Wisdom

  1. Aptly written. This article says it all. We should all learn to be respectful and kind to other people, irrespective of their ideologies, beliefs, religion and even sexual orientation. If we could all do this, these senseless wars caused by ISIS and Boko Haram would stop. Even here in Nigeria, things as trivial as tribalism, political inclinations and what churches we go to wouldn’t matter.
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  2. I get criticised some times for my blog, my audio books, my speaking style and so on. If I don’t like everything about people then why should they.

    In my early days of blogging I used to focus my attention on the negative comments despite the numerous daily views when there are also numerous people who appreciate my work.

    Every one can’t like what you do cos you were not sent to everyone

    Nice article, I am definitely gonna save it.

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    • Ofili

      Yeah. Me too…I always used to focus on the negatives. I wanted to please everyone, but then you realize the world is just too too complex for all that. You will inevitable piss people off and that is fine…that is okay. As long as your ultimate goal is to make people feel better.

  3. Timely piece, Ofili (and Judd, of course). It speaks so deeply to me as I’ve spent half my morning trying to ‘re-brand’ my blog…looking for different themes etc etc. Then I realised, I’m not that person…I don’t know about htmls and urls and rss feeds and all whatnot. I know how to write what I would most likely want to read…das all.

    It ain’t broke…why I wan go fix am?

    Like the article said, some will read and like, some will read and dislike, some wouldn’t even venture near it at all…so I do what I can, stay true to myself , bless the people I meet and hope my writing touches one person just like your writing and Monale’s touches me.

    Thanks Ofili.
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  4. With you Pamela. Thanks Ofili for sharing this. My best part was,
    “I think it is okay to accept the fact that most people won’t get you. We don’t need to like each other so much. We need to be kind and respect each other.”
    Shikenan.

  5. Beautiful work. Ofili what is his blog please, I think I have found someone who you will split my interest with. Good work, again

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